Figuring Out What You Want to Be, Do, and Have is the Key to Getting It

In order to get what you want, you need to know with absolute clarity what it is that you want. Why do you do the things you do? You need to figure out how to get in alignment with who you want to be.

If you could do anything in the world, and accomplish whatever it is you set out to do, what would you do? Where would you live? Who do you want to be? What kind of dream life would you have? What would your perfect day look like?

I think that most people don’t dream or imagine enough. They settle for whatever happens to them and let things happen. If you ask people what they want and ask for specifics, not just vague answers they won’t know. They’ll say things like “Oh, I want more money or I want to travel. Or I want more free time.” How much money do you want? Where do you want to travel to and what would you like to see and how long do you want to stay there? How much free time do you want and what would you like to do with that free time? How do you plan on getting it? Do you plan to work less, switch to part time, or make more money doing something else? [Read more…]